Five Moments of
Discernment
1. When discerning a
vocation, there's always a confusion of options. Many things
interest us.
Suggestion: Root out
any interests that are "bad" or not of God. Then, with the remaining
good choices, seek out your dominant interest and pursue it.
2. The decision making
process is a complicated matter. There are many "layers" of
decisions that must be looked at. At the same time there are clues,
"signs" that are present to us.
Suggestion: Follow
the leads that are present.
3. There is very often
uncertainty in the discernment process. At any one point in time we
only see partial glimpses, not the whole picture; therefore,
uncertainty exists.
Suggestion:
Trust what is deepest in your heart.
4. In discernment, your
decision will always meet a certain amount of inner resistance.
Resistance is a good sign. There is always risk when a person makes
significant decisions in his life. A person must have sufficient
love in his heart to take a significant risk.
Suggestion: Reflect
on what is the source of love in your heart, where it is leading
you, and how deeply it is present.
5. When discerning your
vocation, the road ahead will always remain a bit foggy. You
probably will not know with absolute certainty what lies ahead. The
future will always remain a bit hidden. Mystery and the unknown are
part of everyone's future.
Suggestion: Take one
step at a time. Don't try to "figure out" in exact detail your
entire future.
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